Every time I have a broken heart… My first instinct is to get a make over…. Life is complicated…

 Thinking about getting an inverse navel piercing..  I have been getting into the whole diy piercing recently...  I pierced my lip and tragus, but unfortunately my lip ring after a week in a 1/2 it fell out of my lip while I was sleeping..
The next morning i didn't have time to put it in, because of work. and then later on that day I had an itchy bump on my lip.... And it was not a keloid... It was a stupid cold sore... I still have it :  ((( But my tragus piercing is doing great. :)  Please share any tips about inverse navel piercing.  Videos on how to do it..
Etc please:  ))

 So I have been thinking about changing my look up... But I am NOT CUTTING MY HAIR! I refuse. I plan on growing it out to donate to locks of love. So I decided to ask people on what I should do? And they said I should tan. But I refuse to go in a tanning bed... And spray tans are not in my budget right now... So I went on yahoo answers to get more info about tanning outdoors and now I'm getting comments telling me not to tan??!!? Idk what to do. I'm pale.... I do want more color... I've used the jergens natural glow and it left me with spots.... Any suggestions????